We've finally arrived to the day.
- Contract signed
- Invoice paid
- Outfits designed
- Headed to the location
- Toddler in full meltdown
- Rain is threatening and its a good 10* cooler (or hotter) than hoped
- and at least one bicker between the adults because Saturday is normally a lazy morning and you've probably forgotten to eat or something.
Note to your self, that's all pretty normal, AND it has nothing to do with you... its mostly nerves whether in anticipation or irritation - this is exactly how it goes most of the time.
Take a deep breath. We're all going to make it through and my goal is that we are not only going to make it through the session but we are definitely going to have a lot of fun and every one is going to leave the session with their cup full of happiness, a little tired, hungry, and ready to end the day on a really good note and a good sleep excited to see the final gallery in a couple weeks.
Sometimes there is a little bit of anxiousness from not knowing what to do once the session starts.
- Where do I put my hands?
- Don't think I'm supposed to look at the camera anymore.
- What if I blinked and my eyes are closed?
- The kids are not listening.
- These shoes are uncomfortable, this dress is probably too tight.
- I should be watching "the game" right now.
- etc etc etc.
These are all valid. We don't normally do photo sessions all the time so its really out of the comfort zone and routine for most people. And that is okay.
I strive to make my sessions feel as natural as possible. So you stay in the moment and present enjoying time with your family while I am documenting it. So the fact that the game is on is okay because this moment is better. If your shoes are uncomfortable, lets take them off. The kids can lead the session - what can we do to make them feel really loved and seen right now so that they aren't being stinky because they are being asked to stand still and pose quietly?
Life isn't about being still and quiet is it? Its about running around, laughing, snuggling up, and tickles.
However your family engages... that is what I want to see, that is what my camera wants to capture, that is what is going to make you all feel most at ease and carefree.
You may still have some reservations - and that is okay, I do too when I'm put on the spot (Introverts Club Member since 1987). But have no fear, I'm right here with you every step of the way. I come armed with games, distractions, and fun "prompts" that help push you through the hesitation of being in front of a camera and guide you into your element of fun engagement that creates the type of moments you WANT to remember, you want in your albums, and on your walls. The moments that will be pulled out every major holiday when your grandkids come to visit and you can show them who they come from.
And by the way, those "prompts" are totally a starting point to jump from. I give you a little something to do and you have free reign to take it where ever your family wants to take it - however it feels most natural for you.
Here's a quick couple of reminders, but we can go way more in detail if you need:
- We are catching moments. This takes engagement and honest connection. Think of little things you do together that make your moments together real, raw, emotional - think of things that make you present and unworried or unhurried.
- If all else fails, just keep engaging and moving your hands and gaze.
- Don't do anything that isn't authentic to you and yours.
- Think of this as a movie or video shoot rather than a photo shoot. We need movement. Movement creates variety. We love variety.
- I'll give you a direction and you can run with it. Don't stop after you "finish the task that Sam said to do". Keep going with it, keep flowing, keep it real and natural.
- If I'm quiet and just snapping away, that is okay - it means you're doing good and I am just capturing everything I see and can find. I'll let you know when we need to move on to something new. Sometimes that just happens on its own too! and I'll just keep going.